Question
When you went through marriage counseling, did you feel like it was addressing problems that both you and your wife had, or did you feel it was just a husband bashing session where you were attacked disproportionately more than she was?
When you went through marriage counseling, did you feel like it was addressing problems that both you and your wife had, or did you feel it was just a husband bashing session where you were attacked disproportionately more than she was?
Answer
If that is happening in your sessions you need to confront the therapist about that. It does seem like the husband is being blamed a lot of times in therapy because men won't talk about feelings. You should ask your therapist what their treatment plan is (to see what problems/issues they are addressing). If the problems are not what you want to address bring that up. You may need to find another therapist if your aren't comfortable with the person you are seeing.
If that is happening in your sessions you need to confront the therapist about that. It does seem like the husband is being blamed a lot of times in therapy because men won't talk about feelings. You should ask your therapist what their treatment plan is (to see what problems/issues they are addressing). If the problems are not what you want to address bring that up. You may need to find another therapist if your aren't comfortable with the person you are seeing.
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